Frequently asked questions.

I'm happy to be your first experience! We will take our time discussing everything from your likes, dislikes, limits, and more once you come in. If you are not totally sure what you're looking for, the list of interests on my sessions page should serve as inspiration, and the form on my contact page is designed to help you articulate your desires. If you're still unsure of what to request, or would like to discuss what our scene would look like before booking, I'm more than happy to set up a phone consultation.
That is ultimately up to you. Please keep in mind that the length of the booking is not just for playtime, but also includes settling in, getting to know one another, discussing the scene we are about to do, as well as aftercare and cleanup at the end. In order to craft the best experience, it's important for me to understand your kink motivations, interests, and limits, so this is not something I like to rush through especially for our first time. During an hour session, the scene itself may be 20-40 minutes. If this is our first meeting, you have many different interests, or if you like to chat, you may want to book for longer so that our scene does not feel rushed.
Yes - deposits reserve my time and our session space. Your session will not be confirmed until I have received the deposit. Usually the deposit will be 100/hr, unless it is a type of session that involves more preparation, I am on tour, or you have flaked/canceled in the past. I have several deposit payment options, including private and non-electronic options.
My preferred method of receiving deposits is through Zelle, followed by Cash App. I have additional methods available with an additional fee, such as Bitcoin, credit card, and non-electronic methods. I accept tips through the above methods as well, but cash is always preferred.

For our in-person session, please have the tribute ready in cash upon arrival (big bills, please). If we are meeting in public, please have it in in a discrete envelope, book, or small gift bag.
This is not my only endeavor, and my schedule varies week to week. When reaching out please offer multiple date/times or your general availability so that we can best line something up. I tend to be an early bird and usually do not take sessions starting after 8pm, but exceptions may be made at my discretion with additional tribute.

Same day sessions may be possible if requested early enough, but booking ahead is best because I often already have plans throughout the day.
Any future plans for touring will be listed in my Calendar and Travel section.

If a location is not listed, I do not currently have plans to visit there. Please do not inquire about travel to your city unless you intend on sponsoring it. If you would like to see me somewhere specific, please inquire through my form or email about FMTY or a sponsored a tour. Otherwise, you can keep an eye on my website and Twitter for upcoming tours.
Possibly, if you are respectful and genuine in your inquiry. I like calling the shots but I'm open to indulging in a variety of forms of desire. You can fill out my form with your complete screening information and what you had in mind, and I'll let you know if we can make it happen.
I am Asian-American. Unfortunately I only speak English fluently, but maybe you can teach me other languagues! If you are curious about the country my ancestors and I hail from - come ask me in person and we can both share our backgrounds :)
It would only be possible after gaining familiarity and trust over time, through regular paid sessions. If you were interested in experiencing domestic servitude or female-led relationship dynamics, we can explore that within private sessions or tributed outtings.
Yes, in the mornings. Please give me at least one day's notice in order to prepare. Tribute starts at 750/hr and 50% deposit is required due to the amount of prep needed.
If it is a general request (ex: secretary outfit, black lingerie, workout clothes, etc) or something that I am wearing in one of my pictures, I will try to accomodate if I am given enough notice and if I feel it is suitable for our type of session. If there is something specific you'd like to see me in, you're welcome to bring it with you, or to send me the funds so that I can purchase it for our session. Please note that if you are requesting something - from my own wardrobe - that is comprised of delicate materials such as latex, silk, or high-end mesh/lace, there may be an additional fee to account for handling and cleaning.
If we are meeting for a standard BDSM session at a dungeon, generally just your name and phone number will suffice. Because the dungeons I use are shared spaces, there will be someone else in another room for safety.

For all other sessions, I require more comprehensive screening. Please provide your full name, phone number, and either: references from independent providers you have seen recently (2 in the previous 6 months or 3 in the past year), picture of government ID, or work verification through LinkedIn/company email or website.
Please inform me as soon as possible so I know when to expect you. I reserve our session space (and my schedule, especially on tour) for a set timespan, so unfortunately tardiness will be counted as part of the time that you've booked for. I am tardy for whatever reason, I will honor our full session time.
For cancelations made with two or more days notice, the deposit may be applied to a rescheduled session in the following 30 days. Cancelations made the day before the session or after forfeit the deposit. I will ask you to confirm the session either the morning of or evening before. If I do not receive confirmation at least three hours before our scheduled start time, I will consider the session canceled. Deposits are non-refundable except in the unlikely event that I have to cancel. Deposits while on tour or FMTY are non-transferrable.

If you No-Call-No-Show for our session, the full session tribute is required as a NCNS fee, and to ensure that my time is being respected, I will not discuss rescheduling until it has been paid. If we have discussed session details and logistics only for you disappear once it is time to confirm the session with a deposit, I require a $100 fee. This is to prevent timewasters/fantasy bookers and does not apply if you communicate a need to reschedule.
Of course! I am happy to give up to three references in the six months following our latest meeting. For anything beyond that, please accompany your request with a $25 tip.